Monday, February 13, 2017

To Stretch On The Days You Can't Quite Reach

We all have those days where we can't quite reach.  Where your cup of coffee was a little too hot and the handle a little too slippery.  Where your gas light doesn't cover as many miles as you remember.  Where you sit down to dinner alone and force a smile while thumbing through Facebook posts of everyone with their spouses and children.  Those days are harder to reach the end.  Those days are the ones where you have to stretch out a little further.  Those days are the ones where you might have to lean just past your center of gravity and hold someone's hand for support to keep you from landing on your face.  It's hard to remember that.  It's hard to reach back and grab a hand when it seems like something you should be capable of without aid.  It is just a few centimeters.  It is just that inch.  It is just that minute.  That hour.  Just for today.  All great battles were won or lost in one day.  It is easy to forget how much one day can hold and how little we can alone.  It is easy to forget that we weren't meant to.  It is easy to forget that we don't have to.  This world, the universe, this whole existence is built of pieces leaning on other pieces.  It is the natural order.  If one of those pieces is missing, things will go on, yes, but they won't be "right".  It's that cup of coffee that tastes just a little off because it's missing that extra sugar.  It's that handle that feels a little more slick because you forgot to wipe the bacon grease off on the towel hanging from the stove as you always do but just missed without thinking.  It is the gas light that doesn't cover as many miles because one cylinder is missing it's gasket and fuel is just a little less efficient.  It is the other person, sitting alone eating dinner, forcing a smile, thumbing through Facebook posts of everyone with their spouses and children because you haven't learned to lean on one another yet to support a family.  No part of this existence performs at 100% efficiency and reaches its full potential 100% alone.  No person that has ever lived or will ever live lives their life 100% effectively without the aide of others.  No person has ever or will ever reach their full potential 100% alone.  No goal.  No plan.  No program.  Nothing stands alone, not to its greatest heights.  So remember, take that hand.  Make that call.  Send that text.  Then take that extra, and reach the other side.

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